I’m Small, but I Lost Someone Big, by Jamie Tafoya is a sensitive story about a boy and his mother facing a loss that impacts thousands of families each year. Through honest conversations, therapy, and the support of their community, Jonah and his mom begin to heal and learn to live with their broken hearts.
Jamie Tafoya writes children’s books with warmth, honesty, and heart—especially about the tough stuff kids (and all of us) face. Her debut, I’m Small, but I Lost Someone Big, was inspired by her own family’s experience with suicide. It gently explores grief and loss, encouraging open conversations and helping families find strength through connection and community.
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“This remarkable book stands as a beacon for families facing the unimaginable.”
— Micki Burns, PhD, Licensed Psychologist, Chief Executive Officer, Judi’s House
I’m Small, but I Lost Someone Big is a tender, courageous guide that gently walks children and caregivers through one family’s deeply personal journey after the suicide death of a loved one. With honesty and hope, Jamie and Jonah illuminate the power of connection—leaning on friends, family, and therapy—to navigate grief and rediscover life beyond loss.
While each grief journey is unique, for the millions of youths who are bereaved each year, the need for compassionate, comprehensive care is universal. A supportive village of empathetic educators, skilled clinicians, and caring community members helped Jonah and Jamie move forward without leaving their loved one behind. Thanks to Jamie’s unwavering commitment to healing, they transformed their pain into purpose.
This remarkable book stands as a beacon for families facing the unimaginable, and Judi’s House is honored to have walked alongside them—and so many others—on the path toward healing.
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